The fact is, many people are misled by what they see on TV and in the movies. They think if they make a grand romantic gesture, or get down on their knees and beg for their love to take them back, then things will all work out. However, this seldom works. Here are some common mistakes people make when they try to get back together.
If they tell you that the newspaper is talking about them or that the television is talking about them, and they are not famous, then definitely there is something wrong. When someone has depression and crazy they will feel at times that everything is about them. When they read a magazine they will really think that it is talking about them. Even if the paper is talking about pigs, they will think that the pig is supposed to represent them. They will watch television and see something happen and even if it does not have anything with what they have done, they may think that the television is talking about them.
A – My short term goals are to focus on writing one quality article each day, and continuing to network with other writers. My long term goal is to have a book published by the time I’m 40 – a dream I’ve had since I was a child.
Sarah and Jack are a married couple. Sarah is Bipolar. The two share a healthy, loving, attentive relationship while she is well. She loves Jack with all of her heart. A Bipolar unwell period warps the perception of Sarah. Her mind starts feeding her misinformation about the world and her life around her.
However long it takes you to get over them is how long you should avoid contact with them. Focus on your health and sanity and not what other people say or want.
You will observe some drastic changes in the habits of the sufferer. His energy levels will fall down and laziness will gather all over him/her. The low energy levels will make him/her annoying. The weakness will become a cause of many other ailments. The person will be unable to sleep well. The loss of sleep will also be responsible in the worsening of mood. The victim will be unable to participate in the healthy activities. He/she will shy to play games or quarrel with others.
When was the last time you apologized to someone you hated? At this point in time, Sarah hates Jack because her brain has fed her lies and twisted her perception about the way their life has been. She doesn’t love him right now and may take it out on him in a number of ways- a revenge affair for his “infidelity”, physical and verbal abuse, or whatever her mind may cook up.
Is your helping encouraging? All of your “helping” should encourage your adult child to do better and become more independent. It shouldn’t be so controlling that it takes away the incentive for your adult child to try or that it sends the message that he/she is incapable of handling his/her own life. Helping someone to help themselves is the goal. All of us learn best when we are in control of our choices and directly experience the consequences of them.